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  1. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    So am I? Arbitrary handwaving second person. This is defeatist, useless, and downright fucking stupid besides.
  2. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    So you'd rather not skydive with multiple instructors because it would cheapen the experience? What the hell? Do you not go out to eat with every one of your girlfriends or boyfriends, because then it won't be as good with the next person you date? I'm getting a little tired of being told the...
  3. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    And I am telling you that, if you don't like it, you should stop believing it. I am seeing a general trend here that you would rather whine and make excuses than try to improve yourself or at least take responsibility. Christians only believe this "virtue" because they believe a god exists...
  4. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    I'm sure for some people cheeseburgers are real important things, too. That doesn't make it not ridiculous. I've been a skydiving virgin all my life! Should I not want to give it up until I'm sure I've found the right skydiving instructor? Again, "virgin" doesn't mean anything. You appear...
  5. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    the world does not work like this everyone you fall in love with is the one you feel is right for you that is what love is edit: also there is nothing inherently special about sex and having it with two people or two hundred does not necessarily cheapen it with the next, despite whatever...
  6. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    they're not that was easy! imo something is wrong if you can admit that you don't know why you believe something but continue to believe it
  7. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    sexual virginity is not a possession to be lost. nor is it anything special or unique, any more than television virginity or sushi virginity or skydiving virginity it is merely a label for something you have not yet managed to do, invented by people who cannot get laid and want to pretend they...
  8. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    This has nothing to do with any known definition of 'right'. Yes, but remaining uncomfortable with the intent of judging your partner is still Doin' It Wrong. And why does marriage make any difference? ff See above. Also be aware that some people expect sex to be a healthy natural part of a...
  9. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    Well, first off, you should stop confusing concepts. (Frankly everyone should stop confusing these.) I am greatly offended by your motive, not your potential actions. If you are merely uncomfortable with having premarital sex, that's still pretty stupid, but a far cry from dangling it over...
  10. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    So you cheerfully judge potential partners by putting them through cute little tests of endurance. What's next, you're not allowed to eat chocolate until we get married to prove how much you love me? That's pretty scummy. I pity anyone who ever dates you.
  11. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    yeah bro when I have sex with people I stop loving them too (what) This is a load of crap and kinda pisses me off. E only respects you if e is willing to arbitrarily wait one or two or three years to have sex? What the fuck? Why do you need to test your partner by hanging things over eir...
  12. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    god's shenanigans in the old testament and the lot tale in particular make me doubt that those are strong focuses in church regardless this is why I said general rule
  13. Eevee

    Premarital sex?

    you may notice that a lot of things church teaches are not taught anywhere else this is because, as a general rule, everything church teaches you is stupid
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